Our Founder's Story
"Guys don't get breast cancer... or so I thought." Read more about MBC Support's founder, Paul Steele, and his cancer journey.
Paul Steele
''Guys don’t get breast cancer!''
That was exactly what I said to the consultant in March 2025 when she sat me down, put a hand on my knee, and told me I had breast cancer. At 43 years old, I was a former joiner who was now working in the further education sector, and I was sure this was a condition that only affected women. I was wrong. Way wrong!
The Warning Signs I Ignored
Looking back, the signs were there as early as the summer of 2024. I noticed a lump on the left side of my chest, and eventually, my nipple started to change shape and crack. Like a lot of men, I just got on with things. I treated the irritation with Sudocrem and didn’t think twice about it.
I hadn’t been to see my GP in about 15 years. It was only thanks to the persistence of my partner and my step-daughter, that I finally booked an appointment. My doctor knew instantly something was wrong, and a biopsy soon confirmed I was facing stage three breast cancer.
The Road to Recovery
The months that followed were a whirlwind of intensive treatment. In April 2025, I underwent a mastectomy on my left side, followed by 16 weeks of chemotherapy and 15 sessions of radiotherapy. Today, I am in remission, though I still take a cocktail of anti-cancer drugs that I’ll be on for the next five years.
I celebrated the end of my active treatment on 5th November 2025 - Bonfire Night. Instead of ringing the bell in hospital, my family and I set up a fire in the garden, and I burned every single one of my cancer appointment letters. It was my way of reclaiming my life.
Why I Started MBC Support
During my treatment, I realised how isolated men can feel with this diagnosis. Only about 1% of the 59,000 people diagnosed with breast cancer each year in the UK are men - roughly 400 of us annually.
Most support services are understandably geared toward women. I remember sitting in sessions surrounded by pink ribbons and brave women, but feeling a deep sense of embarrassment and awkwardness. I desperately wanted to talk to another man who had been through it.
That experience inspired me to launch Male Breast Cancer Support. I’ve trained as a mental health first aider and am completing a counselling course so that when other men call the support line, I can offer them the emotional guidance and the "man-to-man" perspective I wish I’d had.
How You Can Help
My goal is to turn this voluntary service into a registered charity to support men across the UK. We officially launched on Friday, 6th February, and we are currently raising funds through our GoFundMe page to cover start-up costs and to get information leaflets into every breast cancer clinic in Scotland.
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No man should face this diagnoses alone.
Thank you.
Paul Steele